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jeff,
is there any way u can cancel a trade w/o letting the other party see it
i know when u send private messages if the message has not been read u can delete it...
just curious...

sorry Lil Dave

The site has no way of knowing if the owner of the target owner in a trade sees the trade. And there is no way to retract the e-mail sent immediately when the trade offer is submitted.

You'll have to deal with a cluttered confusing trade history.